Personal Growth Made Real

Welcome to where science, psychology, and self-awareness collide. This isn’t about manifesting bliss — it’s personal growth, honest, practical, and a little messy. Explore four paths with me:

Expansion: Stretching the mind, habits, and patience while exploring personal growth, curiosity, and a little chaos with a scientific twist.
Alignment: Quietly observing how values, goals, and actions meet, with a touch of self-irony for life’s inevitable misalignments.
Healing: Untangling emotional knots, self-sabotage, and inner messes with reflection, psychological insights, and a hint of humor.
Awareness: Noticing thoughts, habits, and hidden patterns, blending self-reflection with brain-based insights and a wink at own quirks.

Ride My Unicorn shares the science-backed reflections behind
The Unicorn Journals: The Uncomfortable Truths About Magic & Growth,
blending evidence, humor, and self-irony with practical personal growth guidance.

Come for the insights, stay for the reflection.

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Graffiti on a wall in a forest with the phrase 'You Are Enough'.

You'll Always Choose Right

The Difficult Choice

Difficult choices often come with fear, doubt, and the feeling of loss. But the real loss comes from standing still—trapped in hesitation and uncertainty. Fear thrives when you focus on worst-case scenarios, draining your energy and keeping you stuck. Instead, shift your focus toward growth and trust that every decision you make is the right one for your journey. Your life is shaped by your choices, and the only way forward is to keep choosing with intention. The grass isn’t greener on the other side—it’s green where you water it.

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Choose what you want to identify with

The Easy Choice

We make countless choices every day—often without realizing it, running on autopilot. While this may seem harmless, it can lead to patterns shaped by fear, avoidance, and convenience rather than intention and growth. The easy choice is rarely the meaningful one, and delaying necessary change can create self-doubt and stagnation. Over time, habits solidify, making it harder to break free. But change is always possible. The question is: What choices align with who you truly want to be?

Enlighten Me
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Your Life is a result of your choices

You Always Have A Choice

Your life is built on choices—both the ones you make and the ones you avoid. While circumstances may shape your path, how you react, adapt, and move forward is always within your control. Staying down after a setback is a decision, just as choosing to rise again is. Your relationships, your challenges, and even your perspective on hardship are all shaped by the choices you make every day. This post is a wake-up call: you always have a choice. The question is—what will you choose next?

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